別把愛變成害Do Not Let Your Love Turn Harmful

這篇文章的誕生，是吾發自內心的一份關愛。吾的工作是須要見很多很多人的，在眾多的顧客群中，所謂的「疼愛」孩子，或望子成龍望女成鳳，是無可厚非的。祇是吾乃玄學家，必定有非一般的洞察力，必定有遠見。因此，不時都會為這些家長們「捏一把冷汗」

人與人之間的相愛、聚散、來往、互動及喜不喜歡，皆是八字裏的五行相生相剋，所演化的一場場戲劇。也唯有懂得「看劇本」及「修補劇本」的人才能讓一場場戲劇有看頭，且有「較圓滿」的結局。這些絕對不是一個觀戲的人所能辦得到的。

舉例： 您的公子八字不要金，而您卻要他學鋼琴。結果是，他不但學不成，身心還得受創，浪費時間也浪費金錢 ，更嚴重的連親子關係，也可能亮起紅燈。祇因那不是他用神，而是他八字裏的「毒藥」，他自然不會喜歡，也不會學有所成。再舉例：您的千金八字不要水，而您卻要她攻讀經濟學。結果是，她開始有脫髮現象、憂愁滿面、越來越沒有安全感、生理出現問題，等等。試問，這樣好還是不好？

每個人都有其八字裏的喜、用、忌神。而這些喜、用、忌神，都分佈在人、飲食、日常用品、號碼、學術、顏色、形狀、暗與亮，等等。不懂的人，有如瞎子探路，處處皆險也。懂得的人，處處皆生機，健康、快樂、富貴榮華常相伴。「笑傲江湖」又有何難。哈！哈！哈！

願天下為人父母者，早日覺醒，不要再固執己見，快樂為您的子女，批看八字，免去今時日後的煩惱，千萬不要把愛變成害。

The idea for this article was conceived out of my deep concern and care for people. My job entails meeting a lot of people, amongst them parents who love their children and have high hopes and expectations for their offspring. As a Chinese Metaphysician, I do possess a higher than usual level of awareness and foresight. Thus, I often break out in ‘cold sweats’ whenever I meet these parents.

The state of relationship and interaction between human beings, be it falling in or out of love, coming together or falling apart, liking or disliking one another, has a great deal to do with the interactions of the 5 elemental types in their birth charts. These interactions between their elements spin the many dramas that will unfold in their lives together. Only a person, who can read the ‘drama script’ well and has the ability to modify it, can direct these dramas to become blockbusters and influence a happy ending in them. A person who merely watches the show as a audience will surely not be able to do that.

Take for example: suppose that your son does not need his unfavourable element, Metal, and yet you made him learn the piano. Not only does he fail miserably, his self esteem is crushed and time and money go down the drain too. More importantly, this may also put a strain on the parent-child relationship. This situation comes into being because of the unfavourable element (like a poison to him) you introduce into his life. It is only natural that he will dislike and resist with no result to show.

Another example: suppose that the Water element is unfavourable to your daughter, but you insist that she specializes in economics. As a result, the poor girl suffers from hair loss, depression, a deepening sense of insecurity and physiological issues, etc. Is this something you will hope for?

Every one of us, in our birth chart, has our favourable and unfavourable elements. These elements are also omnipresent in our surroundings: people, food and beverages, daily necessities, numerals, trades and skills, colours, shapes, luminosity, etc. The ignorant ones would be like blind men fumbling for directions, their situation ever so dangerous. The ones who have a grasp of this knowledge will find opportunities everywhere, with good health, happiness, wealth and fortune ever present. Laughter will fill your life! Ha ha ha!

I wish that all parents in the world will come to realise this, and not hold on to their erroneous views stubbornly. Spare a thought for the happiness of your children and seek professional help to understand their birth charts. In this way, it will save you from worries in the days to come. Do not let your love for your children turn harmful and end up hurting them instead.