20th Meal Session Recap: Transform Your Destiny With the Dharma第20場回顧：佛法改運餐會
2017年3月14日，玳瑚師父舉辦了《佛法改運餐會》。
在餐會開席之前，師父慎重提醒出席者，所謂的愛，就是不要傷害他人。
做爲子女的，我們不能對父母不好。妳你要對別人不好，妳你就要準備別人對妳你不好。
因此，聰明的人一定會懂得對別人好。
行為有德，代表這個人還有功德，有功德才能夠移開眼前的障礙。
大家也要記得佛法就是一切，一切就是佛法。所以學佛就是要自主生命。
要找一個師父，一定要有人介紹，自己也要去研究，這代表妳你不是一個迷信的人，來生才不會做牛。
茶會精彩回顧：
一、人是高等動物，請大家注意，我們人類依然是動物，祇是智慧比較高。
二、玳瑚師父的茶會等活動，不是給大家來聚會，而是給真正要改善的人。
三、人不能夠自私，玳瑚師父既然得到了宇宙的知識，也應當把時間、精神和知識給妳你。
四、人要和天講條件，首要條件是什麼？
五，人為什麼一直不開心？
玳瑚師父講解因果報應：
六、人爲什麼一直生瘤？
七、爲什麼會有軟骨人？
八、爲什麼有些人駝背無法治好？
九、爲什麼有些人皮膚會長滿一粒粒的塊狀？
此時，一位出席者舉例說出太太朋友正是有皮膚問題，而她所犯的罪行正是師父所說的一樣！
十、我們都是地球人，愛護地球是我們的責任。
十一、爲什麼結婚兩年就離婚？
十二、爲什麼有些女人會當妓女？
十三、婚姻不美滿，因爲結了婚，卻還活在一個人的世界裡。
學佛的真實意義：
十四、很多人要別人給於她他們，可曾問自己憑什麼呢？
十五、每個人都要學習主動對別人好。
十六、學佛是爲了什麼？
十七、我們要學會看清這世界的虛相。
十八、如何運用佛法改命？
十九、佛法真的能讓亡者到一個安穩的境界嗎？
玳瑚師父現場也出了一個題目:「佛法是怎樣的一回事？」，邀請出席者們寫出她他們的答案。眾人說出自己的想法後，師父再一一地解釋給大家聽。
玄學也是佛法，但不是究竟，不能夠讓我們成佛。
學佛的第一步，必定要先學會做一個有信用的人。
餐會結束前，玳瑚師父也應出席者的要求，在她購買的師父文集《向善向上》簽名留念。
餐會在一陣法喜充滿的氣氛下圓滿地結束。
On 14th March 2017, Master Dai Hu held a “Transform Your Destiny With Dharma” Meal Session.
Before the session commenced, Master Dai Hu reminded the participants that to love another person meant to avoid hurting them.
As children, we must not mistreat our parents. If you are unkind to others, be prepared to receive the same in return.
Therefore, a wise person knows to always treat others with kindness.
Everyone must remember that the Dharma is omnipresent, thus learning the Dharma is to gain control of your own life.
To find a good master, you need recommendations and do your own research. Doing so will prove that you are not superstitious, and avoid taking the form of a cow in your next rebirth.
HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE TEA SESSION:
1) Human are superior mammals. Note that we are still considered animals, albeit of slightly higher intelligence.
2) All activities such as the one today are organised, not for get-together, but to provide a platform for those determined to better themselves.
3) Man must not be selfish. Since Master Dai Hu has gained the wisdom of the Universe, he should aspire to offer his time, energy and wisdom to you.
4) What is the foremost criterion you need in order to “negotiate” with the Heavens?
5) Why are humans always unhappy?
MASTER DAI HU EXPLAINED THE LAW OF CAUSE & EFFECT:
6) Why do some people get recurring tumour growth?
7) Why are some people afflicted with osteochondrosis?
8) Why do some people have a permanent hunch on their backs?
9) Why do some people suffer the embarrassment of skin tags all over the body?
At this moment, one participant shared that a friend suffered the exact same fate, having committed the exact same misdeeds, as pointed out by Master Dai Hu!
10) We are all Earthlings, thus caring for and protecting Mother Earth is our common responsibility.
11) Why did this marriage last for only 2 years?
12) Why do some ladies become prostitutes?
13) A marriage becomes unfulfilled, when the couple live in their own worlds respectively.
REAL SIGNIFICANCE IN LEARNING THE DHARMA:
14) Many people keep demanding more from others, but have they ever questioned themselves if they are deserving?
15) Everyone of us must take the initiative to treat others well.
16) Why do we learn the Dharma?
17) We must learn to see through the illusory nature of this world.
18) How can the Dharma transform your destiny?
19) Does the Dharma really have the ability to deliver the deceased to another blissful realm?
Master Dai Hu gave a pop quiz to all participants with the question: What actually is the Dharma?
He asked everyone to pen down their thoughts and share with all present, after which Master Dai Hu gave his own insights.
Chinese Metaphysics are also part of the Dharma. But it is not the Ultimate Destination, and will not lead us to Buddhahood.
The foremost step in learning Buddhism is to strive to be a person of trustworthiness.
As Master Dai Hu completed his discourse, a participant requested for his autograph on his book Towards Kindness, Towards Betterment, which she bought.
With that, the learning session ended in a sea of Dharma bliss.
